It's Called Giving A Fuck...
It's 2020 and already I've had to deal with BS. So here I go again...
You CAN'T hurt someone if you don't know they exist.
1- Your husband left you for another woman, but she didn't know he was married and you blame HER.
2- Some random chick on the internet does psychic/tarot readings and you freak out because they say the truth bluntly, but don't apologize for hurting your feelings and it's not even a paid, private reading.
3- You tell your BFF/psychologist/psychic that your partner/spouse abuses you physically and/or mentally then get mad at them when they suggest you leave to save yourself...even worse, your partner actually IS an abuser and blames the confidant for suggesting you leave them, calling them a "trouble maker."
4- Someone apologizes to you for not knowing you exist, wish you well and you get mad at them for not stopping their life. To make matters worse, you then chase/stalk and cause them drama because you didn't get what you wanted.
5- People who take advice to ignore their instincts/intuition even though they KNOW the person urging them to do bad shit is the Devil. So they do the bad shit, hurt a good person and then wonder why nobody has their back.
Not EVERY communication we get is about LOVE. Not everyone else is to blame for our lives turning into shit. Not everyone is a narcissist. Not everyone's intentions are bad. Not every love interest has an evil karmic just waiting to keep you guys apart.
Sometimes people can love us without trying to get into our pants. It's called giving a fuck. Why is that not good enough and for fuck's sake WHY can't our partners/spouses just be grateful that other people care about us? Why does everyone have to be so fucking insecure all the damn time?
I intend to make 2020 a better year by not ASSuming the worst or having outrageous expectations of others. I'll also cut a mutha fucker out of my life for putting their big ASS in my way out of jealousy or selfishness. I'm too old for this crybaby BS.
I'm getting over the sickness and I look forward to doing readings for your silly butts again soon. Love y'all.