Showing posts from January, 2019

The One You Love (November 12, 2014)

Unrequited love...I wonder how many people in this world are stuck with this disheartening (possible) truth?  I'd say about 80% of my client base throughout the years have struggled with unrequited love.  In my experience professionally and personally, this is the absolute worst scenario one could face in their love life.  Not just for the one on the receiving end, but for the targeted party as well.  I've seen all sides to this issue.  Let me explain... THE TARGET This is the person who has attracted another person who loves them deeply or is just simply infatuated, yet the feelings are not returned.  The Target has the most responsibility in this situation since he or she must be the "bad guy" and deliver the truth; their love is not returned.  When in this position he or she needs to be forthcoming and deliver this message with certainty.  Never let the other person believe you're on the fence when you are not.  If you do, you will quickly become the asshol

MY Journey To Joy: Challenges (November 2014)

Challenges. They happen every single day. Some are so strong they knock us flat on our butts  and some we barely notice. This Fall has been a mixed bag for me. I've had great challenges due to  great joy. That's how it usually is. When something huge and spectacular happens in my world, something and/or someone comes in  to try and destroy my happiness. I believe this happens to everyone at different times in life. So am  I a victim? Absolutely not. Just annoyed at times. If you find yourself in a similar situation, the easiest way to deal with the negative circumstances is  to reconnect with the source. That means your higher self and/or higher power. Here are a few ways  to quickly reconnect with neutral energy to clear your space: Physically AND mentally remove yourself from the bad situation if possible If you choose to surround yourself with drama then expect to not only attract more, but create more  n the future as well. Stop allowing negative peopl

MY Journey To Joy: Everything Happens for a Reason?

January 1, 2019.  The first day of the new year.  I'm about to turn 40 and definitely feeling the mid life empowerment.  Yes, I said empowerment, not CRISIS.  There's no such thing as a mid life crisis.  An awakening, perhaps.  It's the time in our life when we wake the fuck up and realize who is truly down for us and who is full of shit.  A time to ponder our current emotional state and life goals.  Some people start their process much younger than 40 while others simply go through continuous shifts and epiphanies.  The revelation(s) can be a painful or be a tool used to give people, places and jobs the necessary boot in order for one to actually BE happy. Happiness can be created in such a way that it becomes a true reality.  Most people shy away from the process of creation because sometimes extracting the toxic energy out of the system is uncomfortable, to say the least.  I am constantly fighting individuals who only see me as a means to the end of their problems vs.